Health isn’t something you add after life calms down; it’s the foundation that makes everything else in your life work better – your energy, clarity, mood, and capacity all improve when you build a health foundation that bend with your real life. TL;DR (What to Know + What to Do + What to Avoid) What to know What to do What to avoid When You Realize Health Was Never the Goal You know that feeling when your week starts off fine and then suddenly everything collapses? Your parent needs help.Your kid calls.Your work explodes.You don’t sleep.Your hormones are having their own personal parade. And there go your “perfect” health plans. Most midlife women assume this means they’ve failed. But here’s the truth: Your plan failed because it wasn’t built for your real life. Most women treat health like a luxury or a side dish. Something you squeeze in after the Read More . . .
Holiday Pressure Is Real: Here’s How To Stay Grounded Without Dieting
Holiday pressure feels overwhelming for midlife women because the season stacks emotional labor, disrupted routines, nostalgia, food pushers, and constant decision-making on top of an already taxed nervous system—making it harder to stay connected to your needs unless you build a simple plan. TL;DR (What to Know, Do, and Avoid) What to know What to do What to avoid The Holidays Hit Midlife Women Differently If you’re a woman in your 40s, 50s, or 60s, you don’t need me to tell you that December hits harder than it used to. You’re managing aging parents, adult kids, career demands, relationship dynamics, travel logistics, emotional labor, and the cultural story that women are the holiday glue. And then we add food pressure.And social pressure.And a calendar full of events you didn’t actually agree to but somehow ended up responsible for. By the time you’re unloading the dishwasher on December 23, you’re already Read More . . .
Why Your Healthy Habits Change with the Seasons (and How to Adapt)
Healthy habits often fall apart when the seasons change not because you lack willpower, but because your food preferences, energy, mood, and routines shift with weather and daylight, and the solution is to plan for those changes TL;DR: Why Your Habits Change with the Seasons Why Your Habits Always Feel Like They’re Falling Apart Tell me if this sounds familiar: You’re crushing it in the summer. You walk most evenings. You’re eating peaches so juicy you need a paper towel bib. And you’re actually sleeping better because the days feel long and full. And you start thinking, “Oh my god, maybe I’ve finally figured it out. Maybe this time it’s going to stick.” Then the season changes. One day you wake up, and suddenly it’s dark before dinner. That crisp salad you loved in July? Now it feels like you’re gnawing on wet cardboard in a sweater. Instead of lacing Read More . . .
Intuitive Eating Sounds Great – But Why is It so Hard?
When You’re Tired of Dieting But Scared to Eat Normally You want food to just be… food. You want to be able to eat a sandwich without it turning into a whole thing. You want to go on vacation without needing a spreadsheet. You want to stop thinking about food all the time, but not so much that you feel like a reckless college freshman with a credit card and zero supervision. This is the weird limbo no one talks about. You’re tired of dieting. It’s exhausting. But trying to “just listen to your body” feels like standing in the grocery store with no list, no plan, and no adult supervision. You don’t want to binge. You don’t want to restrict. You just want peace. But how the hell do you get there when your brain is screaming, “Be good!” one minute and “Screw it, eat the damn thing” the Read More . . .
Food Is More Than Fuel: How to Stop Emotional Eating Without Going on a Diet
You’ve been told that food is just fuel—but that’s only half the truth. If you’re stuck in the cycle of emotional eating, guilt, and “starting over” every Monday, this post will show you a better way. Learn how to trust yourself around food, enjoy what you eat, and finally stop dieting for good—without giving up the things you love. Read More . . .
Confused About Food? Here’s a Simple Way to Make Eating Easier
I was standing in the beverage aisle at Costco—half out of patience, half out of hope—searching for my usual sparkling water. Not because it’s magic or detoxifying or anything ridiculous like that. I just like the fizz. It breaks up the flat water monotony. But if I drink too much, it gives me GERD. So I’m picky. Anyway, I hadn’t seen it in weeks. I was scanning the shelves like a hawk, when a woman I knew—a local restaurant owner—walked by. I asked if she’d seen it in stock somewhere else. Before I could finish, she spotted the brand I’d brought from home and said: “Oh my god, that one? That stuff is TERRIBLE for you. I’d never drink that. It’s so highly mineralized—it’s the worst one.” And I just stood there, blinking. I wasn’t even buying it. But somehow, I was now under nutritional cross-examination for a bottle of Read More . . .
How to Stop Overeating
Why You’re Overeating (Even When You Know Better) You’re not lazy.There’s nothing wrong with you And no, you don’t need another damn diet. But if you’re like most of the women I work with, you still find yourself in the kitchen most nights, rummaging through the fridge like you’re going to find answers behind the almond milk. You ate a balanced dinner.You’re not physically hungry.But you’re standing there, eyeing that chocolate or the leftover pasta like it’s a lifeline. Sound familiar? This is what emotional eating in midlife often looks like.It doesn’t always show up as a dramatic binge. Sometimes it’s quiet, just a little bite here, a few crackers there. But it adds up. Not just on the scale (although let’s be real, that’s part of it), but in how you feel. Physically heavy. Mentally foggy. Emotionally worn out. And you beat yourself up.Because you know better. You’ve read Read More . . .
Does Health in Midlife Feel Like You Just Can’t Win?
Health in midlife can feel like an endless struggle—one where no matter what you do, someone says you’re “doing it wrong.” One day, carbs are the enemy. The next, it’s dairy. And somehow, even water is up for debate. If you’re tired of the conflicting advice, the guilt, and the constant second-guessing, you’re not alone. In this post, I’ll show you why health feels so confusing in midlife—and how to reset in a way that actually works for you. Read More . . .
Is Clutter Draining Your Energy? How a Messy Home Disrupts Your Health and What to Do About It
Clutter, Stress, and Your Health: The Hidden Connection You walk into your kitchen, ready to make a healthy meal, but the counters are covered in mail, yesterday’s coffee cup, and a half-unpacked grocery bag. Before you even start, you feel drained. The thought of clearing space just to begin cooking is overwhelming, so you grab takeout instead. Or maybe it’s your bedroom—your supposed sanctuary—where laundry piles on the chair, unread books stack up on the nightstand, and the dresser top is a chaotic mix of receipts, lotions, and random clutter. Instead of feeling calm before bed, you feel restless. Your sleep suffers. Sound familiar? It’s Not Just Mess—It’s a Mental and Physical Health Issue Most women don’t realize just how much their environment impacts their well-being. Clutter isn’t just about having too much stuff—it’s a constant source of stress, distraction, and mental exhaustion. Studies show that living in a cluttered Read More . . .
How to Eat to Manage Menopause Symptoms & Weight Control
Tired of unpredictable hot flashes and endless food confusion? Discover how targeted meals, simple habit tweaks, and better “menopause nutrition guidance” can finally bring calm, energy, and confidence back into your life—without giving up everything you love to eat. Read More . . .
Frustrated with Your Health? Why Your Old Habits Are Holding You Back, And How to Break Free
If you’ve ever thought, I should be able to do this—exercise more, eat better, lose weight—you’re not alone. But what if the problem isn’t your willpower? What if the real issue is the unrealistic expectations you’ve been holding onto? Instead of forcing yourself into a plan that doesn’t fit your life, it’s time to meet yourself where you are. In this post, I’ll show you how small, achievable changes can lead to big health results, without guilt, frustration, or burnout. Read More . . .
Why Willpower Fails: And Why “Trying Harder” Isn’t the Answer
Are you a successful woman in your 50s, navigating the unpredictable waves of peri/menopause while juggling career, family, and personal aspirations? You’re not alone. Many women at this stage feel frustrated by weight fluctuations, low energy, and the constant mental chatter around food and body image. Despite trying countless diets and workout plans, sustainable results seem out of reach. But what if the solution wasn’t another quick fix or restrictive plan? What if it was about understanding you —your unique needs, emotional patterns, and lifestyle challenges—and creating lasting change from there? Read More . . .
Liking Your Reasons vs. Believing Your Excuses: How to Spot the Difference
Are You Holding Yourself Back? We all know that moderation is important, but sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between a real reason for changing your plan and an excuse that keeps you stuck. That’s where things get tricky. Here’s an example: You blow off your workout to get some extra sleep. Or you decide to go out for lunch instead of eating the meal you packed. On the surface, both of these decisions might look like you can’t be trusted to follow through on your commitments. But when we look under the hood at why you made that choice, things start to shift. If you skipped your workout because your partner was up all night sick and you needed rest to function, that’s a thoughtful decision, not an excuse. If you went out to lunch because a good friend—one you rarely get to see—had a last-minute opening in Read More . . .
Why You’re Not Losing Weight Anymore: The Truth About Weight Loss Plateaus
If you’ve been trying to lose weight and suddenly the scale won’t budge, you’re not alone. It’s frustrating, and it can feel like all your hard work isn’t paying off. You’re eating better, moving more, and doing everything “right,” yet nothing is changing. Here’s the thing—weight loss plateaus are normal. They happen to everyone. Your body isn’t broken, and you’re not failing. A plateau doesn’t mean you’re doing something wrong; it means your body is adjusting. But if you’re not prepared, a plateau can feel discouraging. You might start second-guessing yourself—Am I eating too much? Should I work out more? Is this even worth it? That kind of thinking can push you to make drastic changes that aren’t sustainable or even make you want to give up altogether. The good news? You don’t have to stay stuck. There are smart, simple strategies you can use to push through plateaus without Read More . . .
The Truth About Treats: How to Enjoy Your Favorite Foods Without Guilt
The holidays are over, but the treats? They’re still lingering. Leftover cookies on the counter, chocolates in the pantry, and that tin of toffee someone gifted you. January can feel like a tug-of-war with sugar cravings as you navigate the indulgences of the past few weeks. If you’re feeling out of control around treats, you’re not alone. Guilt and frustration can creep in when sweets seem to call to you. But here’s the good news: you can reset your habits and enjoy your favorite foods without guilt or feeling like they control you. I know this because I’ve been there. Years ago, I found myself obsessing over a cake at a party, consumed with thoughts like, Can I eat it? Will people notice? Will they judge me? When the cake was gone, I felt both disappointed and relieved—disappointed I didn’t get any, but relieved I didn’t have to fight myself Read More . . .
The Power of ‘Half-Assing’ Your Health: Why Perfection Isn’t Necessary for Progress
This article was written for and originally published on Sixty and Me Here Ever feel like you need to overhaul your entire life to get healthy? Have you ever found yourself putting off making changes because you can’t do it all perfectly? If this resonates, you’re not alone and many women just like you feel overwhelmed by health advice that seems to demand perfection. But what if I told you that you don’t need to be perfect to make real progress? In fact, embracing a ‘half-assed’ approach to your health might be the key to lasting change. Half-assing your health isn’t about lowering your standards. It’s about making consistent, manageable improvements that add up over time. Half-assing your health is about making progress, not striving for perfection. And it’s an approach that can lead to better health, more energy, and yes, even weight loss if that’s your goal. In this Read More . . .
Relieve Menopause Symptoms with These Simple Tips
Are menopause symptoms taking a toll on your life? Discover how to manage them holistically with practical tips and personalized strategies. From understanding weight gain and reducing hot flashes to overcoming brain fog and boosting energy levels, our comprehensive guide covers it all. Learn how to break free from diet culture and embrace a balanced approach that truly works for your body. Ready to take control of your health? Read More . . .
Understanding Midlife Weight Gain: Causes and Solutions
Struggling with midlife weight gain? You’re not alone. Many women in their 40s to 60s face this challenge, but it doesn’t have to be a losing battle. In this post, we explore the common causes of weight gain during menopause, debunk myths, and offer practical, holistic solutions. Learn how balanced nutrition, enjoyable exercise, stress management, and better sleep can help you regain control of your health. Plus, download our free guide, ‘8 Basic Habits that Healthy People Do,’ to kickstart your journey to a healthier, happier you. Read More . . .
Achieving Optimal Health in Midlife
Dive into the world of personalized wellness and discover how achieving optimal health in midlife is not just a dream but a tangible reality. Through the power of health coaching and a holistic approach to well-being, learn how to craft a health journey that respects your individuality, embraces life’s changes, and guides you towards sustainable, fulfilling health habits. This journey is about finding balance, vitality, and joy in your wellness journey, tailored exclusively for you. Read More . . .
Transform Your Health Game – No Dieting Required!
Embark on a transformative journey with our exclusive guide to sustainable weight loss for women over 50. Say goodbye to fleeting diet trends and hello to a life brimming with vitality and health. Dive into our holistic approach, where drinking water, eating nutritious foods, and managing stress lay the foundation for a vibrant lifestyle. Discover the power of movement, the importance of sleep, and the balance of enjoying life’s treats—all tailored to the unique needs of women in their golden years. Join our empowering community and start your path to a healthier, happier you today Read More . . .