Have you ever felt like your body has suddenly turned into a puzzle you can’t solve? Despite eating “right” and exercising, the weight creeps on, energy levels plummet, and frustration boils over.  In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on why so many women feel blindsided by the changes in midlife, and why your body isn’t broken—it’s just changing. You’ll learn why the health strategies that worked in your 20s and 30s no longer apply, and how embracing lifestyle adjustments tailored to this phase of life can help you feel stronger, more vibrant, and back in control. Through personal stories and practical advice, this episode explores the emotional toll of midlife changes and demystifies the confusion around menopause. Discover how shifts in hormones affect everything from your metabolism to your mood, why “pushing harder” can backfire, and how tuning into your body’s signals can transform your approach to health. Read More . . .

“Why didn’t anyone tell me about menopause?” If you’ve ever found yourself blindsided by symptoms like brain fog, hot flashes, or weight gain, you’re not alone. For generations, women have faced this transformative stage with little guidance and a lot of stigma.  In this episode, I pull back the curtain on menopause, diving deep into the reasons it’s so overwhelming and misunderstood. From the myths that silence us to the ripple effects on our health, energy, and emotions, we’re uncovering it all. This isn’t just about coping; it’s about seeing this stage as an opportunity for transformation. If you’ve felt stuck or confused about what’s happening to your body, this episode is your guide to finding clarity, empowerment, and hope. By the end, you’ll see that menopause doesn’t have to be a struggle—it can be a moment to reclaim control of your health and step into a vibrant new chapter.  Read More . . .

Have you ever wondered if the latest weight-loss miracle drugs are the answer to finally achieving the body and peace of mind you’ve been chasing—or if they might come with unexpected strings attached? In this episode of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast, I explore the hype surrounding GLP-1 drugs like Ozempic and Wegovy, which promise rapid weight loss. I unpack their appeal, from quieting food noise to delivering quick results, while highlighting the bigger picture often overlooked: what happens when you stop taking them, the emotional toll of weight regain, and the risks of relying on external fixes without addressing deeper issues.  Sharing my personal story of extreme dieting and bodybuilding, I reflect on how chasing thinness left her unfulfilled and underscores that true health and confidence go beyond the scale. Whether you’re considering these medications or seeking a sustainable approach, I emphasize the importance of cultivating self-compassion, sustainable Read More . . .

Did you know the way you manage your money could mirror how you care for your health? In this episode of Total Health in Midlife, I sit down with Marie Burns, a Certified Financial Planner and former Registered Dietitian, to explore the fascinating connection between financial habits and physical well-being.  Marie shares how behaviors we learned in childhood influence our choices today and how rewriting those narratives can lead to greater balance and confidence. We discuss why financial wellness and physical health are deeply intertwined, offering practical tips to take charge of both.  From uncovering your “money personality” to understanding how stress impacts your finances and health, this episode is packed with relatable stories, actionable advice, and tools you can use to start making positive changes. Whether you’re looking to feel more empowered in managing your money or inspired to create a healthier lifestyle, this conversation will leave you with Read More . . .

Have you ever looked in the mirror and wondered when the reflection looking back at you changed? Maybe you thought by this point in your life, you’d have stopped caring about how you look. Instead, you find yourself navigating new challenges—not just about weight, but about the profound ways your body evolves in midlife. What if I told you that the struggles you’re feeling aren’t just about aging but about reclaiming a power that was never meant to be lost? In this episode of Total Health in Midlife, I dive into the untold story of women in midlife and their shifting body image. From unexpected changes in hair texture and skin to the surprise of needing reading glasses, these aren’t just physical transformations—they’re emotional markers of time, identity, and resilience. We’ll explore why these changes can feel so challenging and how societal narratives have shaped our perception of aging. But Read More . . .

Have you ever found yourself starting the year with big health goals, only to feel like you’ve fallen short by February? What if I told you the problem isn’t a lack of willpower or discipline, but a critical mistake almost everyone makes when trying to overhaul their health? In this episode, I’ll reveal the key reason traditional health plans don’t work and share a completely different, counterintuitive approach that could transform the way you think about your health goals—no more exhausting cycles of starting over. I’ll dive into what I call the “River of Misery,” that emotional space where trying to maintain new habits feels overwhelming and tempting you to give up. You’ll hear about Claire, a client of mine, who struggled with all-or-nothing expectations and learned how to create a realistic plan that could bend without breaking. I’ll also introduce you to the concept of “B Minus Habits”—a sustainable Read More . . .

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to leave behind the fast-paced American lifestyle and start anew in a foreign country? Maybe you’ve seen my posts about the gorgeous beaches, slower pace, and affordable living in Mexico and thought, “Could I really do this?” In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on what nearly eight years of living in Mexico has really been like—the good, the challenging, and the life-changing lessons I’ve learned along the way. From navigating language barriers to discovering a simpler, more intentional way of living, I’m sharing the unexpected shifts that have shaped my expat experience. I’ll talk about why I’ve resisted doctor visits, the surprising longevity of my workout clothes, and how our community rallied around us when we faced challenges like losing power shortly after moving. You’ll also get the behind-the-scenes scoop on our House Hunters International episode and why life Read More . . .

Do you find yourself weighed down by guilt every time you indulge in a treat, or have your attempts to eliminate them left you bingeing later on? In this episode, I’m revealing how the “all or nothing” approach to treats backfires and how you can enjoy your favorite indulgences without sabotaging your health goals. I introduce a new perspective on treats that might change not just your eating habits but your entire outlook on life. Discover how limiting treats doesn’t mean depriving yourself, but instead finding a sweet spot where you can enjoy all the foods you love without compromising your health goals. I’ll dive into why completely eliminating treats often leads to binging and how to create a sustainable, guilt-free relationship with food. I also share real-life examples of how clients have transformed their relationship with treats. You’ll learn why gradual, mindful reductions in your treat consumption are more Read More . . .

Are you tired of feeling like you’re constantly at war with food? Do you find yourself overeating, only to feel guilty afterward? In this episode, I reveal a simple but transformative approach to eating: learning how to ‘eat just enough.’ This practice has not only changed my life but has helped countless clients break free from the cycle of dieting and guilt. You’ll discover how to enjoy all your favorite foods while maintaining a healthy weight, without ever needing to diet again. And you will not feel restricted or deprived We’ll explore why traditional diets set you up for failure and why willpower alone isn’t the answer. I’ll introduce you to a powerful tool that helps you tune in to your body’s hunger signals, so you can stop relying on external rules about when or how much to eat. By learning to eat just enough, you can master the delicate Read More . . .

Could the changes in your body be more than random? This week on Total Health in Midlife, I talked with Valerie Simms, life coach and founder of the upcoming Hormone Harmony Summit. Valerie’s work reveals often-ignored links between life events—like divorce—and hormonal symptoms such as brain fog, mood swings, and insomnia. After transitioning from financial planning to holistic health, Valerie noticed gaps in conventional medicine’s support for women, inspiring her to create the Hormone Harmony Summit, now in its fourth season. Airing November 21, the summit brings together experts to discuss holistic approaches to hormone balance, from nutrition to Reiki. Join us for a preview of the event, where Valerie shares how these insights can help you take control of your health. Don’t miss this chance to transform your understanding of your body and well-being. About Valerie Simms Valerie Simms is a professional life coach dedicated to helping her clients Read More . . .

Ever fail achieving a goal and then just want to forget about it? In this episode of the Total Health in Midlife podcast, I take the traditional approach to goal-setting and turn it on its head in favor of diving into what really matters: flexibility and authenticity. I opened up about my own journey—setting big, ambitious goals, only to realize that the real growth came when I allowed myself to change course. Let me challenge you to rethink how you’re setting goals. Are they truly in line with who you are today? We’ll explore the power of behavior-based goals—where daily actions, not just outcomes, take center stage. This shift can transform your sense of accomplishment, keeping you motivated and grounded in the present. I’ll share how releasing the pressure to achieve unrealistic expectations can lead to building sustainable habits and embracing change without the weight of guilt. After all, it’s Read More . . .